If you’ve felt apprehensive about telling a parent or older relative how you feel about them, you need to gather your courage together and be blatantly honest with them. Listen carefully to what’s being said around you; however, the lines of communication could contain a lot of static, literally and figuratively. There's no point in studying self-help books if you don't apply some of the knowledge. You will be challenged to actually put into practice some of the principles you have learned. Changing your work or communication styles may be a challenge but will be well worth it in the end.
Realization is to get rid of the delusion that you have not realized. – Sri RamanaMaharshi