You need to look into organics, the environment and healthy living. A slight modification in your lifestyle will ensure a better quality of life. Your extravagant gestures may land you in financial hot water. Just because you want to be loved, doesn't mean you have to overspend. There are other ways to show your appreciation.
"Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens." - KhalilGibran
Incredible but true: By age 16, Andre the Giant (who's real name is Andre Russimof) was 6'10' tall. He had a rare glandular disorder that made his body continue to grow. Even as he died, his body was still growing.