You may want to finish some pet project for example a garden or some other designing but have been distracted. You can complete what has not yet been finished. Your emotions may be getting more and more complex, but the solution is to simplify your relationships for the best results. Don’t distract yourself with socialising. Solve the problem now.
The boy who is going to make a great man must not make up his mind merely to overcome a thousand obstacles, but to win in spite of a thousand repulses and defeats. - Theodore Roosevelt