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Virgo Love and Romance Overview
For a Virgo woman to commit to a man, everything has to be exactly right. This could mean not finding a suitable partner until the middle years of their life. A personality "flaw" that to onlookers would be seen as not worth bothering about can take on gargantuan proportions to the seeker of perfection, Virgo. Small things that most other star signs wouldn't even give a second thought to, can be a complete turnoff for a Virgo. Things as insignificant (to most of us) such as using the wrong cutlery at your first romantic dinner, pronouncing the wine incorrectly or any one of a thousand other seemingly small reasons is enough for a Virgo to call the relationship quits.
Virgo needs their practical and emotional needs cared for by a partner. However you are a no-nonsense person yourself and romance may seem to be lukewarm to a prospective partner. Not much chance of fireworks from this star sign, at least in the initial stages.
This could be the reason that many partners back off and look elsewhere for that spark. Your brand of love and affection is rather like good wine - it can get better with time. Patience is called for and if your partner can't settle for being shown your love in practical ways instead of wild passionate sex, then they will be out the door without a backward glance.
At the start of a relationship you can appear to be shy and reserved but once you are comfortable and establish trust you come out of your shell and are very playful and creative. Ingrid Bergman was a Virgo and given the descriptions here would seem to be a very unlikely candidate for this star sign. But a Virgo she was and looks at the sex appeal that just oozed from every pore of her body. At the time of her film fame she was one of the most adored sex goddesses.
Your love life will always need communication and your lover must stimulate your brain as well as your body. Wit, general knowledge and intelligence are paramount if this romance is to get off the ground. Turn on your mind and your body will surely follow, much as night follows day. One without the other will definitely not work for you Virgo.
Sexuality is an expression of true love for you and, when it comes to romance, your partner must be aware that hygiene, purity and the appropriate time and place are a must when it comes to romance. In marriage you want a long term partnership and in these modern times you could be poles apart from what most people are looking for. Emotional commitment is not a road that everybody is prepared to travel down.
As with relationships on the whole, sexuality is a sacred area for Virgo. This is perhaps more the case with women rather than men. Generally however you romanticize love and see it is an almost divine bonding of two souls. The physical aspect of your relationship is never fulfilling enough if the intellectual component is missing. Crass or crude individuals need not apply for a relationship with Virgo! If you feel confident that someone has covered all bases -mental, emotional, spiritual and physical, you'll have no problem sharing the deepest recesses of your soul with them.
If Virgo is hurt in love it takes a considerable time for them to recover from the wounds. Regaining trust can take a long time indeed. Because your idea of perfection is so ingrained, learning that all humans are subject to flaws is one of the most important lessons you will learn in life. Chasing a fantasy must be tempered with the reality of human imperfections.
Mercury, the ruler of Virgo, will give you a youthful attitude well into old age. It proves that growing old gracefully is not something that you aspire to. You can have a wonderfully satisfying relationship with fun and role-playing with the partner of your choice.
Virgo has a sense of humor, look younger than the actual years on the calendar and maintain a sprightly and light-hearted attitude well into their senior years. Lucky you, Virgo.
Virgo Lover
If you’re a guy reading this simply out of curiosity to find out the best way to seduce your newly found Virgo girlfriend, you need to understand upfront that she’s a modest woman who’s not at all quick to draw romantic conclusions of any kind. If you’re after the quick fix, the Virgo girl is the wrong woman for you.
In my own years of research and into the Virgo Woman I have found that they are more practical rather than sexual, but don’t let that lead you to believe that the Virgo female is passionless. Not so. What I’m saying is that the female of Virgo is simply slow to loosen the grip on her heart before handing it over to a deserving partner.
Unfortunately when it comes to love, Virgo can be a little cold and analytical and trying to understand the other person as well as their own feelings. Again, if you’re reason for writing this is and you’re reading you’ll probably feel judged and at times under the microscope. You’ll need to be on your best behaviour and offer Virgo something more than the average person out there. Are you up to the task, I ask?
Virgo, the virgin, misrepresents the deeper passion and selfless love that Virgos indeed bring to a relationship to those who are prepared to be patient enough to have this revealed to them.
Virgo is playful, passionate and intensely curious when it comes to love making, but only under the right circumstances.
The other important point to make is that Virgo is one of the most loyal of the star signs. Once they give their heart and commit to someone, even under the most trying of circumstances, that commitment will not be shaken.
They are reluctant to leave a relationship, especially once they’ve invested time, energy and emotion into the partnership. Just as they are with money prudent, they are prudent with their investments of an emotional kind and want to see the best possible return on an investment. I know this sounds rather mercenary but practicality also seems to be a cornerstone of their approach to relationships as well.
Virgo modest but passionate…
Don't let the shy exterior of Virgo fool you. Mercury, their ruler is hot and you'll be surprised to experience that passion of theirs in the bedroom. But first win their trust!
In a relationship with Virgo you need to captivate their attention. Their mercurial minds are ever changing, ever desirous of variety and intellectual stimulation. If you’re a couch potato and spend your days watching TV in an uncommunicative stare, Virgo is not the right match for you. Communication, expression and exchange of ideas and information is the bedrock of a successful relationship with those born under the virginal sign of Virgo.
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