Pisces Love and Romance Overview
The typical Pisces finds no difference between love, affection and romance as they need all three. A Pisces who feels unloved is an unhappy person to whom life seems very grey and it is only love that will revitalize this star sign.
The love of Pisces is no ordinary love and few know how to love like them.
Your search for the perfect partner will continually measure them against an unattainable standard, similar to raising the benchmark about 5kms above the ground. But that may last only about a week and during the initial period of seeking perfection; you'll quickly realize that you have made an error in slipping that pedestal under your potential lover's feet.
Although you may aim for perfection yourself Pisces, and want to see that perfection in others, few if any can live up to your dream. And when reality kicks in you'll see that the truth of what you're actually dealing with is another human being from the same species as yourself. When you are in love Pisces you can cope very well with a range of difficulties or problems that other parts of your life may throw at you.
As a Pisces you will be continually devising new ways to keep the flames of your passion burning, even into old age. It is so important to you that you will never allow romance to die. You like to surprise your lover with shows of affection and novel techniques to demonstrate how you really feel about them.
You're a sentimental individual and love candlelit dinners or quiet moments together in a natural setting. Writing little love notes expressing your love for them will be your way of letting them know that your love is true and for keeps. Shedding a quiet tear in an emotional movie may mean that your lover should always carry a spare handkerchief to help you wife away your tears.
When a typical Pisces makes love it is an act of romance rather than of carnal pleasure. You are less interested in sexual activity than in the expressions of love that come before and afterwards. Your Piscean energy is more often than not used up in the emotional experiences of love than in the sexual act. This does not mean Pisces is not interested but is for reassurance rather than personal pleasure.
Some Pisces may drift into another relationship almost without noticing, yet you will be surprised when you are accused of unfaithfulness. You are haunted by self doubt and this can only be dispelled if you are given repeated assurances that you are indeed lovable.
If your love life is not going smoothly and you have too much heartbreak tallied up on the board, you may actually give up on the idea of finding love but substitute this lack with chocolate, ice cream or even worse would be medication or illicit drugs. A mid-life crisis might drive some Piscean wallflowers to go after someone who is unavailable e.g. married or absolutely wrong for them. This is the Piscean way of knowing that they can't possibly be hurt again. Weird logic?
The worst thing that can happen to you Pisces is to be rejected by the one you love however your partner will find it very hard to call it quits with you. You will dig deep to find something that will make them cling to you, convincing them that if they reform in some way, everything will be alright again. It may take the unwilling party all their imagination to extricate themselves from the relationship as you won't give up without a fight, will you Pisces?
It is not unlikely that you will have several partners before finding the one that you want to spend the rest of your days with. Because you are the least prejudiced and most compassionate of the star signs Pisces, you will show a deep and real love for a partner who has problems or physical abnormalities, or who has to face a tragedy or business disaster. You will not turn from them because life isn't perfect.
With the right soul mate marriage is a must for a true Piscean. This will ground you and give you the direction that you so desperately desire and on top of that gives you the wonderful blessing of children. What could be more unconditional than loving and caring for your own kids?
Pisces born individuals are somewhat vulnerable in love and this is because they give themselves so easily, so fully and unconditionally to their partners that they often overlook the importance of studying those that they fall in love with. Because you are so unreserved and non-judgmental in your love we might even refer to you as the perfect lover of the zodiac. You’ve always dreamt of love and the ideals of perfection, but you need to be careful if you’re going to be fulfilled in a relationship. The reality of love is often not in keeping with your vision. You don’t however, believe love is an impossible dream and you never give up the ideal of finding your perfect soul mate.
Pisceans are fragile and susceptible in love so it is imperative that those becoming involved with them treat them with the utmost respect insensitivity. If you heard of Piscean through deception or infidelity, it is hard for them to recover and they will carry that pain for a long time.
Pisces need a lot of love and acceptance, and because they are so giving in their attitude, they really need the same the sort of unconditional response from their partner. As well they need a companion who is going to stimulate them and to trigger their imagination In terms of day-to-day communication but also in the bedroom as well. The water signs such as Pisces know how to nurture and protect their partners. This is because they are ruled predominantly by the element which governs emotions.
You want to give yourself so completely to the one you love that you often become oblivious to the other aspects of life. You mustn’t become blinded by love. When however your soul mate, your true love, comes into view you’ll see this as the turning point in your life. You’ll give your all to satisfy them. Even if your partner is not as unconditional as you you’ll still be happy to give them your love wholeheartedly. You somehow hope that they too will in time be able to give you greater satisfaction. Don’t smother your lover. You must give them enough space to develop their own interests and they’ll appreciate this gesture.
You know how to keep romance alive by making it interesting. You’re innovative in the way you like to show your love and can keep the flames of passion burning bright into old age, if you choose. You often think up different ways of expressing your love and this is what maintains your partner’s interest. Sentimentality is a strong part of your character. You cry at the drop of a hat. When a friend has a problem or suffers a tragedy, you feel as if this is your own problem and will share in their suffering.
One of your uncanniest abilities stems from your intuitive skills. You are just so in tune with your lover that you know what is going on in their mind and heart. When they have a problem, you know it. You are a step ahead in helping them solve their problems, much to their surprise and appreciation.
If like some Pisceans you are on a never ending treadmill looking for love, you will find your emotions are not fulfilled. The danger for some Pisceans is that the reality of love forever falls short of the imagined perfect lover. As I’ve said before, you must keep your desires realistic and also your assessment of others real.
Sexually you must have a partner who will give in return. For you physical intimacy is an extension of your personality and you’d love to give of yourself wholeheartedly. Venus and the sign of Libra are the planet and sign of relationships and they regulate the sexuality of Pisces. You therefore have a natural connection with sex and physical intimacy. If you do happen to meet the right person you’ll totally surrender yourself and enjoy lovemaking.
Your partner will definitely appreciate your caring and considerate behaviour. Just don’t overdo your open-handedness. Don’t become too needy. Your partner will lose respect for you. You’re deeply committed to long term stable relationships and you’d like the security of a family environment to do your job as a parent. You instinctively understand the nature of unconditional love and this is where, as a parent, you excel. Raring children will be one of the most satisfying experiences for you. Pisces, you were definitely born to love.