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Libra Love and Romance Overview
Once you find that special “one” you’ll be completely blown away by how sensitive and responsive you will be to his or her needs but you need someone who will reciprocate. You will be devoted and your commitment will intensify over time.
You require 100% input from both parties in a committed relationship, so choose your partner carefully. Any shortfall in the areas of respect and affection will send you looking for love elsewhere.
You need to be very clear about what you want from your partner. They need to communicate their feelings and their lust. The word “love” is a verb, not just a noun. You show your affection generously and in practical and tactile ways. You want to be the Prince or Princess and are not afraid of what other people may think about this aspiration.
You are loyal, but showing your insecurity by asking your partner to prove their love time and time again could lead to thoughtless acts and tension. You need to learn the art of unconditional love and, although it is not an easy lesson, you’re a fast learner and will make every effort to get it right. A balanced and happy love life is your ultimate goal.
Sex is a way for you to show your feelings for that special person so is vitally important to you. When you’re attracted to someone you’ll pull out all stops. Fashion, fragrances and anything else that will make an impression is where you’ll start – and usually you will succeed. Love and sensuality at its finest will be the lot of the lucky person who marries a Libran.
Love can be given in many different ways and you desire passion as well. Don’t assume that because your partner is not sharing your innermost fantasies that they are disinterested. This would be a big mistake on your part. Just remember, lust doesn’t always equal love.
You want to give your family the best that money can buy, so you’re keen to sport the latest fashions and symbols with, of course, a partner who complements you. You like to see that everyone you love is well cared for with all the comforts and conveniences that money can buy.
Your home will be a showpiece of what you have been able to earn and the quality furnishings and fittings that can be bought with that money. You love the feel of luxury fabrics; a top of the range sound system, the most up to date appliances and a beautiful car to drive around in could also be on your list. These trappings are not necessarily to impress other people, but you feel you owe it to yourself to live this lifestyle.
If you focus on maintaining harmony and stability and add a little more commitment to your partnership, you will have a winning combination for love.
Libra Lover
Being ruled by Venus is your greatest claim to being one of the most loveable and loving star signs of the Zodiac. It’s as if you instinctively understand what love is and from as early as you can remember the concept of romance must have been something you are aware of even from childhood itself.
The principle attributes which make you so lovable if that you have a natural inclination to appreciate and admire the person that you love. But for that person that’s not always that easy. You have an extraordinarily high standard when it comes to choosing the person that you’ll give your heart to. It’s probably for this reason that many Librans and in particular the men love to play the field and explore the possibilities that are available to them when it comes to giving their heart for keeps.
Even if you do decide to involve yourself in many liaisons for the purpose of experience, you might as I’ve also found with some Librans, come to a point where the decision between two or more lovers is a reality. The fact that you have the scales of justice ruling you means that you oscillate in your choices and could find it immensely difficult to draw a conclusion.
Your standards as I’ve said are extremely high and this makes it hard not just for the person that loves you but for you yourself to accept that the yardsticks by which you measure love is an impossible one for anyone to measure up to. And the reverse side of this coin is that you sometimes put people on such a high pedestal that when they fall off it’s hard for you to believe that they are after all only human.
Your ideal is love itself and everything that is subsequent to that such as family life, a good partner and children. You want to build a comfortable environment for yourself and the one’s you love.
Although you love your family and give your all to them there is still a secret part of you which needs its own space, independence and option to meet and interact with many different people. Because of this your choice of partners is very important as they will need to allow you that space without any touch of possessiveness or jealousy. Under no circumstances can you handle being pushed into a corner with your hands tied and no possibility of exploring your social and intellectual life. That would be a disaster.
Libra love lessons
Part of your lesson in love is to accept human frailty as part in parcel of human nature. You must of course weigh up all sides in your choice of “the perfect one” before committing yourself to marriage.
In your relationships you want someone who is elegant, intelligent, witty and hard working. For you, you need someone who has the same passion and energy for life as yourself. You also need someone who can convey their feelings and their ideas so that the interplay of your minds and hearts are unobstructed and can develop in unison.
All in all your capacity for love is great but your indecision and idealism may at times undermine the very thing that you hope to achieve. You must learn to relax, accept others for who they are and enjoy the path of love.
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