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Gemini Love and Romance Overview
The basis of any successful relationship is open, honest communication and fortunately for you, Gemini, this is one of your most natural and in-built personality traits. This means it’s only natural for you to want to communicate your ideas and feelings to the one you love.
Gemini is an air sign, which rules the mental aspects of human nature and although you do communicate well, you may have the tendency at times to let your head overrule your heart. You tend to filter your feelings through your mind and need to get more in touch with that feeling instinct if you are to take your relationships to the next level.
Although you never have a problem connecting with people generally and making lots of friends and new acquaintances, the idea of commitment does tend to scare you a little. You have a desire to be free and independent and as long as your partner can afford you the space to grow as an individual then maybe, just maybe, the big “C” word won’t terrify you as much.
You have an incredibly versatile personality and you love variety. Sticking to one relationship might be difficult for this reason as well. You love the experience of exploring the world, meeting people and trying different things.
You see this as a way of expanding your mind and would love your partner to view life in the same way. Sometimes, however, in marriage and/or a committed relationship you could find that it’s not always as easy to do this once the day-to-day grind sets in and your family responsibilities take over. It would take a very special type of person to give you the freedom to continue along this sort of lifestyle and you only hope that when the right person come along they too have a similar desire to live a free and exciting life with you.
True love to you means being free enough to express yourself on all levels – intellectually, physically and emotionally. Because your mind is such a dominant part of your being it’s quite likely that creative visualization and fantasizing will play a prominent role in your love life. Sharing this aspect of your sensual and sexual fantasies with another requires a high degree of trust, wouldn’t you agree?
Your soul mate ideally will understand and encourage your diverse interests and your sometimes rather unbelievable ambitions. For you, a married partner needs to connect with your ideals and aspire and support you in attaining these extraordinary life goals.
There are times when your Gemini mind just can’t help being cynical and this is one aspect of your personality that needs to be checked when and if you embark on your love life. Your critical nature is never meant to hurt although at times a touch of sarcasm will be thrown in to make your point. Usually, however, you have the other person’s best interests at heart and you generally want to help them grow and become happy and fulfilled within themselves. You need to understand however that not everyone is as intellectual and you need to once again bear in mind that often relating to others on a feeling level rather than a mental or intellectual platform is a superior way to help them after all.
You do tend to impose your opinions on others and in the extreme; others perceive you as an opinionated and even self-righteous type of character. You find this amusing but remember, being in a committed relationship is a long term thing and this may not be tolerated by the one you consider your soul mate. Try listening a little more to get to know how others are reacting to what you have to say.
When all is said and done you are a loyal, passionate and exciting person to be with and the energy you bring to a relationship is formidable. Once you consider someone worthy of your love you sacrifice a great deal for them but the question is usually one of endurance with a Gemini. As long as your partner can satisfy your desire for variety and novelty, you will be able to make the commitment and hang in there for the long haul.
Gemini – As a lover
Dating a Gemini can sometimes be a little misleading, especially if you are the sort of person who likes to dive into a full-on passionate and emotional relationship as soon as you start dating. Partly because of their nature of being so casual, however, Geminis have a tendency to want to develop friendship and camaraderie at more intellectual and communicative levels first before taking any connection further.
Another issue when it comes to romance and love with Geminis is that their humour and sometimes what seems like their superficial conversational style—could throw you into the misunderstanding they are not really all that interested in you. However, you must be careful not to judge them too quickly because this is their way of getting to know you.
But, speaking of getting to know others, Gemini, as far as relationships are concerned, do have a tendency to gauge others simply on how much they are liked by the other person rather than delving into their personalities in a critical and deeper fashion. This is where Gemini can falter when it comes to the necessary long-term requirements of a solid relationship.
If you are a Gemini reading this, my best advice to you is to think a little less of what people are thinking of you on that first date and really give some careful consideration to the person’s character by asking them some deeper and more probing questions. This will also help you evaluate whether the person you are considering does have the requisite mindset to satisfy you. After all, as I said at the outset of this particular section on Gemini, you do need someone with a quick mind and capable wit to match your own.
When Geminis aren’t all that busy and can spare time for an afternoon coffee or lunch, you will find they are excellent listeners and will empathetically try to help you with whatever problem you bring to their attention. In fact, their perfect use of humour will act like a medicine to soothe the wounded souls who come to them. As well they are very generous to their lovers and relatives and in time will start to spend more and more time with them. So, if you are one of those who does have the pleasure of meeting with your Gemini friend on a regular basis, consider yourself lucky because they probably have many others waiting in line.
Once Gemini falls in love, some of you may exhibit a possessive streak. This is not usual, however, because the youthful and playful nature of the ruling planet of Gemini, Mercury, hardly sets the scene for boredom with any of their partners.
In short, Gemini in love, whether male or female, is a fun person to date, get to know and also, if you are not adverse to a life of intense variety and fun, is charming, clever, creative and even bold and adventurous at times. You will never be bored or wanting for things to do with them. However, you must remember when dating and falling in love with a Gemini that you need to give them space to explore life due to the independence that indelibly marks their character. If you can do this, you will find the perfect balance and enjoy a deep and fulfilling relationship with them.
One final thing for those of you wanting to attract and keep a Gemini: on a sexual note, their erogenous zones are their hands and arms, which are ruled by the star sign of Gemini. These sensitive parts of them are receptive to light touching, or even massage. Believe it or not, knowing this can assist you in winning their hearts and gently persuading them into a more passionate mood!
Variety in love
Gemini will keep their lovers on their toes guessing and, most importantly, interested in them for a long time to come. It would be unusual for a partner of Gemini to stray given the variety offered by them in a relationship.
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