Aries Love and Romance Overview
There’ll never be a dull moment with Aries in any sort of relationship but romance is particularly important to you and the blazing fires of love are fanned by the breeze of sexuality and intimacy.
Mars is bold and straightforward by nature. In friendship, you make no secret about how you feel about another person. You don’t feel that there’s any sense in beating around the bush and playing mind games. This is just not your Aries way. To you, time is of the essence and you want to get down to the nuts and bolts of friendship, relationship, once you feel attracted to another person.
Love and sex are a scintillating and fun game for you and once the playfulness of a relationship diminishes, you don’t feel at all inspired to continue. For non-Arians reading this, the message is very, very clear: If you venture into love with an Aries native, keep the flames of passion burning brightly, otherwise all is lost.
Many Arians have a very short attention span which means your partner must keep up the variety of love and make this the heart of the relationship to maintain your interest. You’ll enjoy role playing and fun because Aries is a young sign so the idea of growing old is abhorrent to you. Even middle-aged and older Arians enjoy the zest and youthfulness of sexual play.
Being spontaneous, you like spur of the moment outings and events and if the mood catches you, you’ll be out the door at the drop of a hat. Hopefully, your partner will be able to keep up with your ad-hoc antics. There’s nothing worse in your mind than someone who acts like a wet blanket and is fearful of just getting up and doing something creative or spontaneous. You must never become involved with someone like that. It will crush your romantic spirit.
You like to be the centre of the universe and will want a lover who builds up your go, at least initially. Once you do happen to find Mr. or Mrs. Right, you’ll display your affection in return and can e extremely loyal and loving to them.
You defend your honour in love and cannot handle being betrayed. You’re such an honest person yourself that you’d rather hear the raw, naked truth, even if it kills you, rather than have to deal with any form of deception. But you’re not likely to just roll over and take it if someone crosses you either. The word “Aries” is synonymous with the word “fight”. You will want to have the last word in any confrontation and can make your point quite clearly when called for.
Because of the intense energies that Aries generate, you must choose your partner carefully. You need a special person in your life that is sensitive to your needs and will stay committed for the long term. Falling in love for you may centre on the game of conquest and the thrill of the chase will always fascinate you. And if your partner plays hard to get you love the challenge of winning them over. Moreover if someone is competing with you in love you work even harder at winning better person's hand over your competitor.
Unfortunately, this approach to romance will cause problems for you as the chase turns into an incessant sequence of laid-back associations. At the heart of this is your desire to be loved and to prove that you are bigger and better than others. It’s important for you to get in touch with yourself and find your own inner security to make your relationships fulfilling and more importantly, enduring.
Some of the best star sign combinations are the fire signs like Leo and Sagittarius or even air signs like Gemini or Libra, and these individuals will nourish your romantic as well as sexual appetites. You must never generalise astrologically about the people you meet but through trial and error, astrology has found that these star signs are more than likely most compatible with you.
Finally, you are an excellent homemaker who will protect your family and build a solid foundation of security for the clan. Protection is one of your inbuilt instincts towards those you love and care for and will ensure that your future should be a happy one once you connect with your soul mate.
Aries – As a lover
Dull or inactive lovers need not apply for a relationship with Aries. The fact of the matter is that becoming romantically involved with someone born under your star sign of Aries is a full-time commitment, requiring attention, physical energy and creative reciprocation. There's no escaping indirection with an Aries lover.
If your partner is able to give 100% to a relationship with you however, they can expect a life of passion, excitement and affection with you. You will actively go out of their way to make life fun and fulfilling in every possible way. If other star signs are reading this we should mention that if they are lucky enough to be in a relationship with you they are indeed lucky as you will be prepared to offer a great deal of variety when it comes to the relationship.
As Mars rules your personality and is the driving force behind your birth sign it stands to reason that sex is of primary importance in your relationships. When I mentioned the words dull and inactive earlier I refer also to your lover in the bedroom and if this is the case with your partner rest assured the relationship will not go very far at all. You need a creative lover between the sheets, someone who will provide each and every one of your sensual needs and also explore the fantasies you aspire to. If you find someone fitting this description then this will go a long way to ensuring a satisfactory experience for both of you.
Proud Loving Aries
Aries love to feel that they can showcase the person they love to the world and take great pride in their relationships. You’ll attract many partners in your life due to the combined influence of Mars and Venus and will be selective in your choice of the "one". You are attracted to and need to prove your prowess especially if you are a man and born under this sign.
Being born under Aries means you are quick off the mark when it comes to involving yourself with new partners. Particularly in the early part of your life you like to play the field and explore what's on offer. You may sometimes be accused of being shallow or commitment phobic. That's not altogether true as you like to filter out what's not going to work and get to the point as quickly as possible. Some of the broken hearts who have crossed your path, came and went overnight, shouldn't feel too bad because at least you were totally honest with them and didn't keep them tethered to a relationship that you knew wasn't going to amount to much.
Some of the broken hearts who have crossed your path, came and went overnight, shouldn't feel too bad because at least you were totally honest with them
And that brings us to the aspect of Aries and their ruthless honesty. As Jack Nicholson said to Tom Cruise in the movie A Few Good Men," You can't handle the truth". And that's the case for most of the other star signs who deal with Aries in a relationship. In fact Jack Nicholson's attitude in that scene depicts fairly accurately the manner in which the truth is delivered by an Aries. They are blunt and unforgiving. And it's true; mostly thin-skinned individuals will not handle what Aries have to say all that well.
In marriage Aries, you make an ideal partner always putting your family and loved ones above everything else. Sometimes this is hard for others to see as you spend considerable time earning money try to acquire the best things in life - but only ever doing this as a means of satisfying and proving to the ones you love that you are there for them. You are protective and will never allow anyone to harm the ones you love or step over the line of what you consider your territory.