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An astrologer is often confronted by people who want answers but aren't prepared to accept the simple truth. What follows is a recent discussion with a difficult client wanting a reading. Dadhichi questions the client to guage her emotional and spiritual depth.
Parts of the discussion are quite enlightening and funny at the same time. Few of us want to take responsibility for the situations we are in. Dadhichi shines the light of investigation on the lady and reveals just how closed and misguided she really is. Please note as this is typed from an online discussion there are some typos. Some people just can't be helped. Read on....
Questioner: I'm lonely
Dadhichi: that's a thought and you don't have it when you sleep
Questioner: my life suddenly changed when my boyfriend left me
Dadhichi: but the situation is still the same, you follow? Loneliness is an Idea, a concept
Questioner: what situation
Dadhichi: It's not a reality if you don't think about it
Questioner: no I don't think I'll be happy again
Dadhichi: that too is a thought. What is wrong with this moment if you don't think about it?
Questioner: I know
Dadhichi: stop thinking negative thoughts
Questioner: but he is the only person who can make me happy
Dadhichi: that is so wrong No one makes you happy or unhappy
Questioner: I don't think negative
Dadhichi: that is an erroneous concept
Questioner: I even looking forward to him to come back
Questioner: I'm always optimistic
Dadhichi: that's a concept too. It is not NOW
Questioner: even I don't know If It will come true
Dadhichi: you keep thinking outside of your life. Forget future and be happy NOW
Questioner: I won't be happy. Maybe someday. I don't know
Dadhichi: that's a thought that will create your future like any thought creates things in life that's a choice. Everything that has been created is by thought - awareness
Questioner: I know
Dadhichi: think about what I'm saying. This is the truth. See the computer? Where did it begin? At one time no computers existed right?
Questioner: I was young that time when computer started so I don't know when the computer existed first (Laughs)
Dadhichi: at one time it didn't exist. Neither did a car. Neither did a house. A chair. A road. All things
Dadhichi: how did any of this stuff in the world come to exist? Think....
Questioner: yeah
Dadhichi: well - what do you think? How did it all start?
Dadhichi: my question will lead you to an understanding
Dadhichi: ?
Questioner: I don't know
Dadhichi: don't be mentally lazy
Dadhichi: consider carefully
Dadhichi: the TV
Dadhichi: at one time it didn't exist right?
Dadhichi: so how did it come to be?
Dadhichi: did it just pop out of thin air
Questioner: no
Dadhichi: so...how?
Dadhichi: where did it start?
Dadhichi: before it was a plan on paper?
Questioner: Inventions
Dadhichi: correct
Dadhichi: and how is something invented?
Questioner: because of their ideas
Dadhichi: correct
Dadhichi: and what is an idea?
Dadhichi: in essence?
Questioner:ha
Dadhichi: what is an idea?
Dadhichi: where is an idea?
Dadhichi: where do ideas begin?
Questioner: It's become it is supported of theories
Questioner: so they have ideas
Dadhichi: no start with the idea
Dadhichi: where does an Idea begin?
Dadhichi: tell me
Dadhichi: think with clarity
Dadhichi: ?
Dadhichi: this is not a hard question you know
Dadhichi: nor is it a trick question
Dadhichi: tell me
Questioner: ideas came from theories
Dadhichi: no
Questioner: facts that exist in the world
Dadhichi: no
Questioner: from facts they invent ideas
Dadhichi: an invention didn't begin in the world at all
Dadhichi: who invents something? The world doesn't...........
Dadhichi: come on girl!! ( laughs )
Dadhichi: an inventor silly
Dadhichi: and where IN the inventor does an idea arise?
Dadhichi: before it ever existed as a theory in the world?
Dadhichi: come on
Dadhichi: a 5 year old has answered this question for me before
Dadhichi: go quick!!
Dadhichi: where in an inventor is an idea created?
Questioner: I don't know
Dadhichi: In the mind!!
Dadhichi: an inventor invents things in his MIND
Questioner: you are roaming around the bushes
Dadhichi: I am roaming nowhere - I am asking a simple and direct question
Questioner: see, you distract me
Dadhichi: you are the one roaming in the world of the future using your mind to create negative ideas
Dadhichi: my point some time ago was this.....the mind can create amazing things in the world. The truth and Universal law is that your thinking creates your destiny
Dadhichi: If you think negative or depressing things or say "I will have a bad future" your mind will create EXACTY THAT!!!!!
Dadhichi: I am not distracting you at all - I am 100% on a single point
Dadhichi: YOU are constantly distracted by bad thoughts
Dadhichi: so you have a crappy life
Dadhichi: If you change your thinking - these thoughts become real
Questioner: never mind
Dadhichi: like an inventor thinking constantly on something - it too becomes real
Dadhichi: never mind what?
Dadhichi: you want predictions but take only what you want to hear
Questioner: you made my mind bothered
Dadhichi: predicting for you will be of no use
Dadhichi: your mind is bothered like a drunk who is being cured gets the shakes
Dadhichi: when you withdraw from a dangerous drug or a bad thinking habit you get unsettled
Dadhichi: If you want a cure and a successful life you will not be affected by the withdrawal
Dadhichi: to be healed requires strength
Questioner: maybe I'm not ready to accept now
Questioner: I'm contented with this - all I want is my boyfriend
Dadhichi: perhaps you can't accept - correct
Dadhichi: you are in no way contented my dear
Dadhichi: that is evident from your words
Questioner: If you can't help me it's ok
Dadhichi: you are distracted, depressed, lonely and bothered ( in your own words )
Questioner: I'll just make a love potion to let him go back to me ( Laughs )
Dadhichi: how can this be contentment my dear?
Dadhichi: you are a beggar for love
Questioner: yeah
Questioner: but it's ok
Dadhichi: waiting for things outside yourself to give you happiness - what a pitiable state
Dadhichi: this is slavery
Questioner: call me anything
Dadhichi: I'm not calling you anything
Dadhichi: I m just giving you back the words you wrote to describe yourself
Dadhichi: these are your own self descriptions
Dadhichi: read above to see how you described yourself
Dadhichi: why blame me (Laughs)
Questioner: because u don't help me
DADHICHI RETYPES HER WORDS BACK TO HER .....
Dadhichi: Questioner: no I don't think I'll be happy again
Dadhichi: Questioner: I'm lonely
Questioner: ok ok
Dadhichi: Questioner: even I don't know If It will come true
Dadhichi: Questioner: I won't be happy
Questioner: ok
Dadhichi: read these words that came out of your mind
Dadhichi: read clearly the self messages
Dadhichi: these are not my words
Dadhichi: they are all yours
Dadhichi: all negative, self defeating phrases but you can change this if you want but somehow I think you're addicted to the negative story you've created like most people who remain like this for their whole life
Dadhichi: It's like a broken record
Questioner: ok
Dadhichi: you are addicted to these self concepts that someone will get you out of it - the boyfriend returning will give you happiness
Dadhichi: happiness isn't to be postponed
Questioner: ok
Dadhichi: realize this right now and be happy NOW
Dadhichi: when have you ever been happy truly...tell me
Dadhichi: you have always expected it in the future sometime right?
Questioner: I'm only happy with him
Questioner: I was never been happy before
Questioner: he made me happy
Dadhichi: and when the future becomes this present moment your mind is trained to continue waiting for some future time
Dadhichi: he didn't make you happy - just like a dog with a bone who cuts his gum with a splinter and bleeds on the bone thinking the blood is in the bone, you too think the happiness is coming from somewhere outside yourself
Questioner: no, he made me happy
Dadhichi: It is all your own self creating happiness
Questioner: you don't know
Dadhichi: have you had another boyfriend in the past
Questioner: no
Questioner: only one
Dadhichi: in the future when this one leaves, you will meet another and never give a thought to this one
Dadhichi: It happens like this
Dadhichi: happiness is where you focus your attention
Dadhichi: the happiness is experienced within yourself
Dadhichi: like an idea is in your mind
Dadhichi: so is happiness
Questioner:in my own?
Dadhichi: Yes!! So when did this man last contact you?
Dadhichi: hm?
Questioner: on my birthday
Dadhichi: a man who truly loves a woman will contact her daily without fail
Questioner: and he sent me a message
Dadhichi: when was your birthday?
Questioner: October
Dadhichi: we are now in December
Dadhichi: are you kidding me?
Questioner: but he broke up with me
Dadhichi: so you no longer mean anything to him
Dadhichi: so this is all in your mind as I said
Questioner: I know
Dadhichi: that is the reality
Dadhichi: your happiness is not from him
Dadhichi: he hasn't provided anything to you since October but you still believe HE is the reason for your happiness ( Laughs )
Dadhichi: this is called delusion in my universe
Questioner: ok
Dadhichi: this happiness is self created, an imagination in your own mind, a wish, a hope. It is not real
Dadhichi: you will say that I am cruel
Dadhichi: but I am only bursting the bubble of your own imagination. I am doing you the biggest favour truly. Do you not see your folly?
Questioner: You don't know!!
Dadhichi: I don't know what? See - you ask an experienced astrologer for predictions then argue his wisdom with him. Because you pay nothing you value nothing. That is your dilemma...but also my experience with thousands of people who ask "Oh please read for me please, please - I have no money" ( Laughs ) Then when you talk for free the same people say say "You don't know".
I rest my case....................
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