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The fact that Scorpio rules over the eighth sign of the zodiac says it all about you and love, sex and marriage. The eighth sign rules sexuality and intimacy, and is the most transformative sign of the zodiac. You therefore have a natural attraction to these areas, and an instinctive urge to explore this part of life.
Scorpio is generally secretive, but in matters of love and romance you are extremely demonstrative. You love to show your feelings once you have chosen a lover, and you need your affection reciprocated.
Being born under the most sexual sign, you are dynamic, emotional and complex in love, so anyone who gets involved with you must be prepared for a bit of a challenge. If they can tread the path with you they will be transformed by the process. Love with a Scorpio is thrilling — it’s never dull.
A lot of people who don’t know you well are afraid of your intensity, the way you dive into your relationships. From you side, it’s just that you basically know what you want from someone, so you don’t waste any time. Everyone you really connect with gets a sense of assurance and security from that confidence.
You’re pretty hopeless at handling indecisiveness, even in relationships: you’re likely to take control of the situation and steer it in the direction of your choice. If you are too heavy-handed about this, some people might walk away from the relationship. You’re an all or nothing person at heart, and would rather say goodbye than stick with a half-hearted partner.
There’s been a lot said about your intense love and your power to mesmerise people. Let others be warned — a relationship with you is not to be entered into lightly. Love for you is almost like a religious experience: you see your soul and that of your lover coming into full communion and lifelong commitment.
You can be moody and brooding and hard for your partner to figure out. You’ll often seem withdrawn, thinking about things without sharing your thoughts. And you sometimes shut down, especially when you’re stressed or emotionally deprived. This can be very hard for the people around you.
Unless you give your lover a hint about what is bothering you, you could end up pushing them further and further away. Reach out and explain your feelings as much as you can.
Other water signs, such as Pisces and Cancer, have a close affinity with your changing moods — they are the best at flowing with your emotional shifts. Your opposite star sign, Taurus, which is an earth sign, is also not a bad balance to your deeply intense nature. They will anchor and secure you to the earth and somehow balance your extremes.
You are not only passionate; you are also experimental, and need to find new ways to satisfy your strong sexual appetites.
You get very attached to your partners, and can be possessive and jealous. Sometimes it’s your own insecurities that are at the heart of your desire to dominate a relationship.
You are only truly faithful when you’re deeply in love — if you’re not, you’d rather play the field rather than be tied down to one person. But once you do discover that special person, you’ll give yourself to them totally, and defend them to the death.
Scorpio men and women make some of the best homemakers. Family life is very important to you. You’ll spend a lot of time creating a nurturing and supportive environment for your family.
You have strong principles about how your family should be organised, but make sure you don’t let your disciplinarian attitudes take over the household. If you want a smooth family life, try to show your softer, gentler side more often.
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